{"data":{"title":"不卑不亢 恰是王道","abstract":"我是倾风lll760，愿与你分享个人成长收获和生活感悟，点击上方关注，让我们共同成长吧(=^▽^=)上交不谄，下交不渎 。——《周易·系辞下》不卑不亢，是智者的眼光，是王者的风范。不要用无数次的折腰，去换得一个漠然的低眉。纡尊降贵换来的，只会是对方愈发地居高临下和颐指气使。","cover":"https://p3.toutiaoimg.com/origin/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/c79c8c8dc9b642fa8cfcd3a63ee8704e","articleType":"article","itemId":"7111922339654402594","groupId":"7111922339654402594","groupSource":2,"isOriginal":true,"banComment":false,"publishTime":"2022-06-22 19:23","source":"倾风lll760","tag":"news_essay","mediaSite":null,"pathname":"/article/7111922339654402594/","loginUserInfo":null,"favorite":false,"relation":{"isFollowing":false,"isFollowed":false},"likeData":{"userLikeStatus":0,"count":3},"isSelf":false,"content":"

我是倾风lll760，愿与你分享个人成长收获和生活感悟，点击上方关注，让我们共同成长吧(=^▽^=)

上交不谄，下交不渎 。——《周易·系辞下》

不卑不亢，是智者的眼光，是王者的风范。

不要用无数次的折腰，去换得一个漠然的低眉。纡尊降贵换来的，只会是对方愈发地居高临下和颐指气使。

不卑不亢，

不因别人的傲慢而恼怒，

不因别人的轻视而自卑。

不用过多羡慕别人，

不要刻意贬低自己。

做自己就好，既不低声下气，也不傲慢自大。

讽刺诋毁有何惧，心无悔愧自不虚。

不必焦躁强争辩，亦无卑微懦弱屈。

不卑不亢，保持平视。

你抬头自卑，低头自得，唯有平视，才能看见真实的自己。——杨绛

保持平视，是对他人的尊重，也是对自己的尊重。

我们要以平视的目光去看待世界，那样才会发现世间的美。

尼采有言：“处世之道应该是，不要爬上山顶去，也不要站在山脚，从半高处去看，这个世界真美好。”

保持平视，不高不低，恰到好处。

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